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17 September 2006 @ 10:30 pm
Why is it the good people get cheated on? Why is it the Cheaters don't give a damn?

Two questions I just asked myself and Stephy. I had a conversation with my Dad earlier, on the phone. Mum was on the one downstairs talking to Dad and I picked up the one upstairs and just listened. They were talking about me so I told them they were being unfair. Mum put down the phone and me and Dad argued. He doesn't get it.

He says the affair, the cheating, the lying- he says it's all in the past. He doesn't understand that it isn't, because it's bobbing in the present and effecting the future greatly. I told him this and he hung up on me- no word since.

Then Ruben. He's just told me Alex is cheating on him. Izzy did the same thing. It's so unfair. He's the best guy ever, and he always chooses the girl that hurts him.

Why is it the good people get cheated on? Why is it the Cheaters don't give a damn?
Current Location: Home
Current Mood: angryAngry doesn't cut it
Current Music: Chasing Cars- Snow Patrol
pizza_eater_galpizza_eater_gal on September 17th, 2006 09:45 pm (UTC)
first of all hun, i am always here if you need me. I know i havnt treated you like a true friend should have lately and i'm sorry. You support me so much and i think your amazing.

What your dad did was out of order but sometimes people find it hard to hear home truths coming from people they love and want approval off. Not that what he did was right but maybe he just didnt want to hear how much his behaviour has hurt and effected you.

Good people go through things like this and theres no reason behind it. No explanation to make sense of it. But what i can truthfully say is that what you give in life, you always will get it back. And those who cheat and hurt others without a sense of compassion or remorse will get what they gave others - hurt and lonlieness.

Hope you dont think i'm lecturing lol.

Love ya babe, you know you can always ALWAYS talk to me.

Stephy xxx
"Your girl is lovely Hubble"natures_law on September 17th, 2006 09:50 pm (UTC)
Thanks Stephy. I know I've always got you and I love you for always being there, even though we've never met and I'm a crappy friend and I mess up.

I didn't think you were lecturing me either. I'm just so hacked off at how blind people can be to their own mistakes. My Mum and Ruben deserve better. I can't fill that place for my Mum, but I could for Ruben if he'd only let me
pizza_eater_galpizza_eater_gal on September 18th, 2006 07:13 pm (UTC)
Re: Cheers
Your a brilliant friend! And you dont mess up! Your perfect and my Verititia! Never ever let anyone tell you other wise. Your amazing the way you are and if more people were like you, the world would be a better place.

X Stephy X
"Your girl is lovely Hubble"natures_law on September 18th, 2006 08:26 pm (UTC)
Re: Cheers
Thanks again Stephy... but the truth remains. HE doesn't give a damn
pizza_eater_galpizza_eater_gal on September 20th, 2006 09:51 pm (UTC)
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i love you. and i'm so glad i have a good friend in you. you seem to be the only person who doesnt stab me in the back. your the only one who seems to actually like me. trust me to me your a lifesaver. and i wish so much that i had friends who were you.

Steph xxx
"Your girl is lovely Hubble"natures_law on September 21st, 2006 03:35 pm (UTC)
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Well congratulations. You do have friend who is like me... me! Muchos Love sugar-plum